Dampati or Married couple

The Latin word demos makes the  English word democracy related to public. In that system people r governed by its own elected leaders indirectly it is social arrangement which prevents the pother or evil elements for  development of  good society. 
But this demos comes from the Indian scriptures, root word 'damu upshamne' दमु उपशमने meant to make in order or suppress, the power of controlling. Our mind has jig-jag or jiggling nature, moves to and fro ,makes itself impure.The activities of our body for out side behavior with related subject: completely comes from this kind of mind.The result is undesired.This kind of mind requires the power of Dam.By this power one can behave cooperatively and can remove  the hurdles for goodness.The word is used in India for married couple DAMPATI  it is combined word like Dam + Pati in English meant the owner of controlling power.It is very interesting  that married couple called the Dampati.We can understand our mind's volatility which may effect progress of someone's family or society ,street ,city or may be country This mind  can be of whether man or woman but after being Dampati or married couple or the owner of controlling power they make their life happy with cooperation and tries their best to remove the obstacle which comes in the way of fine family making.This removing power is actually the Dam or दम .The power works with mind for the creativity that is called in Indian language Samani avastha समनिअवस्था   extrovert nature of mind.We can understand the flow of mind goes towards the out side world.But after a time this mind becomes jiggle and impurity take place.So it is necessary to become pure or getting concentration ,we must see its other side which is we define in India Unmani Avastha उन्मनी अवस्था  or in English introvert state.Unamani state or the mind must go to upper side and seek its source for happiness and power which is must for making better family or society or Nation.That unmani goes to its reservoir.And make us good Dampati.The question may be raised, is it the power of Dam only for married couple then what for unmarried .Yes if some one wants to be master of his evil activities or going to make better society to clears the bad elements he also becomes Damdaar दमदार having courage or courageous  like the leader or becomes Democratic who is befitting with the common people..